Day 4 · Thursday, October 29 · The Unfamiliar Feelings
The Shame of Pain, and How to Fix It
with Kate O'Connor
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The Shame of Pain, and How to Fix It
Pain is not a sign that you suck, and it has absolutely NO bearing on your worthiness. But women have been taught to feel ashamed of our pain, like somehow it's our own damn fault. When you stop feeling ashamed of being in pain, doors open to connections, information, and solutions that can actually help.
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Kate O'Connor
Mindset + Erotic Power Coach, Mindset Matriarchy
Kate O'Connor is a mindset + erotic power coach for women.
She teaches women how to UNlearn patriarchal conditioning, and LEARN how to get what they want.
She is also a total hot-mess-46-year-old-ADHD-mama-to-a-preschooler... and she STILL always gets what she wants.
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